Saturday, December 14, 2013

The Perception of Beauty

This is a opinion piece I wrote for my high school newspaper that I slightly altered and I thought I would share it on my blog for others to read...

 Earlier in the week, an estimated 5 million viewers tuned in to watch the annual Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show; a runway display that is considered a major event for girls and young women all over the world. But does this once a year occasion cause more harm than good?

Tweets, photos and posts such as “RIP Self Esteem”,” Brb while I go throw up,” and “Crying because I’m not perfect like a Victoria’s Secret Model” flooded social media outlets during, before and after the show creating a wave of insecurity among girls everywhere.


Some of the famous faces of the company pose for a photo.
For those who do not choose to tune in to the show, or simply unaware of the mass hysteria of teenage girls who idolize the “Victoria’s Secret Angels”, you really are not missing out on much. In essence, the show is one big risqué costume party, displaying outfits usually only including a bra and underwear with a twist of fun featuring new performances by artists such as Taylor Swift, Justin Timberlake, and Bruno Mars every year.

Though the show is entertaining, it creates an unrealistic image of perfection, and quite frankly, it lessens the respect many women work so hard to get. How can women promote success in major corporations and ask to be treated with the same respect as men when there are other women (such as the VS Angels) who parade themselves around in little to nothing for men young and old to watch freely?
           
Why yes, of course the Victoria’s Secret models are stunning, walking effortlessly with gorgeous smiles, toned legs, rock hard abs, and flowing hair, but the real issue doesn’t perhaps lie with the image men see of women, its how these women effect other women such as themselves.

 In all honestly what girl wouldn’t want to look like an Angel every day, and get paid to be beautiful? Yes, it is no doubt these models work hard for the bodies they have, but it is impractical for a normal full time working woman, student, or mother to have the time to work out numerous times a day and dedicate themselves to only being fit.

In my opinion, teenage girls, and women every where should perhaps look up to celebrities such as Jennifer Lawrence of The Hunger Games who says: “We have the ability to control this image that young girls are going to be seeing.” Girls see enough of this body we can’t imitate, that we’ll never be able to obtain, and these unrealistic expectations.” Jennifer is a great role model that encourages women to love the bodies they were given, rather than trying to promote perfection.

Many southerners and Christians acknowledge the fact that God made each and every one of us beautiful in our own way, we just have to make sure that we remind ourselves, friends, daughters, and sisters of that. 1 Peter 3:4 says: "You should be known for the beauty that comes from within, the gentle and unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

Personally, I admire the Victorias Secret Models, and would love to be one myself, but If I were in their position, I would remind other young girls that beauty is not just what remains on the outside, it is what is on the inside that counts. I would advocate the unique beauty each and every young girl possess through social media, and encourage women and teenage girls to exude self confidence when doing press interviews. 

 So next time the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show air’s, rather than drowning yourself in self pity, or that bag of chips you opened in response to temporary depression, remember that there are plenty of great, successful, beautiful women  that you, your friends, or your daughter should look up too who don’t have to be a size 0 to feel like an Angel.